Maybe it’s a weakness but as a 5’8 1/2″ male, I sometimes feel a little awkward talking to a woman who towers over me. In fact, it’s a bit humbling even if she’s only 5’7 but wearing 5-inch heels. I’ve never dated anyone taller than me but have dated women who were roughly my height (5’9″/174 inches is still tall for a woman), which never rattled me.
Do you understand where I’m coming from? It’s natural to notice differences that stand out. And when I see a couple in the mall where the woman is more than an inch taller, it might catch my eye. But, it’s important to remember that love and connection transcend appearances, and each relationship is unique in its own beautiful way.
That stated, it’s not just me. I’ve heard a bunch of women say they needed a man who is at least 6’0″ or 6’2.” And I’ve met 5’10” women who say they wouldn’t date a man shorter than them.
Society, for better or worse, says the man should be larger than his girl. After all, men are larger, masculine beings in general.
Will there come a time when, within reason, a short dude is in a relationship with a much taller woman and nobody cares or thinks twice about it?
What if she’s 6’2″ and he’s only 5’6?”
Upworthy recently posted about that. One of their writers found an interesting story on TikTok.
Lucas Byrd is the top-ranked collegiate wrestler in his weight class—how impressive is that? Meanwhile, Ellie Holzman has an incredible background as a former D-1 volleyball and softball player. But what really sets this dynamic duo apart on social media isn’t just their athletic prowess. This TikTok-famous couple captivates audiences with their delightful 6-inch height difference! Lucas stands at a compact 5′ 6″, which gives him perfect leverage for wrestling, while Ellie reaches an impressive 6′ 2″, ideal for those powerful volleyball spikes. What a fantastic pair they make!
The two share an account (@ellie_and_lucas) and document their relationship there with the cutest videos you’ve ever seen.
In an interview with Big Ten Network, Holzman shared that she and Byrd began their relationship as great friends. While he developed feelings for her, she initially struggled with the height difference between them.
It’s important to recognize that societal pressures and cultural taboos often place undue emphasis on height in relationships. However, stepping outside these conventional molds can be challenging at first. It requires a shift in mindset to embrace what truly matters: the connection and compatibility between two people, which ultimately transcends physical attributes like height.
We can foster more fulfilling and authentic relationships by focusing on genuine emotional bonds rather than superficial standards.
@ellie_and_lucas Just a boy (and girl) ✨in love✨
♬ Boy In Love – Elliot James Reay
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